Pastor’s Weekly Update
Weekly Update // Pastor Durwood
One Last Time
WOW! That’s the word I used to begin my sermon this on Sunday morning. And the feeling is still the same.
How, or why, is it that when we are having a great time the minutes, hours, days, weeks and months seem to move at an accelerated pace. I still remember watching the clock tick, tick, tick slowly as I waited for school days to end. It still seems like yesterday we were making the decision to come serve among you and now we have returned to our home in Georgia. WOW.
I shared a poem written by Minnie Louise Haskins in worship on Sunday. King George VI shared it in his Christmas Radio address in 1939. From the first time I heard it until today, I am reminded that the journey we take in this life never goes backwards and it never stands still. Try as I might have, my kids grew up and flew into a life all their own. Even our grandkids will not slow down! The clock ticks, the calendar changes, and our lives move forward.
I leave with you Ms. Haskin’s words as Asbury takes its next step, knowing that the sure and certain faith that has marched this faith community forward will continue under the leadership of Revs. Emily and John. Open your lives and hearts to them the same you did to my family!
I said to the man who stood at the gate of the year: GIVE ME A LIGHT THAT I MAY TREAD SAFELY INTO THE UNKNOWN! And he replied: GO OUT INTO THE DARKNESS AND PUT YOUR HAND IN THE HAND OF GOD. THAT SHALL BE TO YOU BETTER THAN THE LIGHT AND SAFER THAN A KNOW WAY!
Durwood
PS - I told you that Asbury would remain a part of our hearts and lives long after we drove away. Well it will. A retired clergy person must choose a church to remain connected to in retirement. We chose Asbury and could not be any happier.
Weekly Update // Pastor Durwood
Dear Asbury,
We get attached. I know that it is part of my DNA. As I shared a few weeks ago, Anne and I knew we would enjoy our time at Asbury and the opportunity to share with, and learn from, a new community. We just did not know that we would come to deeply love and cherish the family that is Asbury UMC.
I shared with the staff this morning that they had become an important cog in that connection from day 1. What we have shared together as the team assembled to lead the ministry here has been life giving and renewing. Anne and I had both missed this connection for the past 8 years while I served as a superintendent.
Sunday will be a tough day for us. We drive away, though, with the love each of you have shared with our lives and we will carry you in our hearts. The scripture lesson is Exodus 14:10-15 - HEARING VOICES.
The best days for Asbury UMC are today and the days to come as you continue your journey as an authentic community of faith, built on the foundation of God’s love, hope, and grace. We will pray for you, for Pastor Will as he prepares to lead at Tuskawilla, and Pastors Emily and John as they become the next leaders of this marvelous faith community.
I will always find joy in my heart when I think about Asbury. I’ll always include Asbury when someone asks what our favorite places have been. Each one of you have imprinted our heart with love and joy and we are so very grateful for having had this time together.
I do hope to see you all at one of our services at 9:30 and 11:00. If not in person, I hope you will join us online on YouTube or FaceBook.
May God continue to richly bless the ministry and mission of Asbury as we truly seek to know the love of Jesus Christ and PASS IT ON!
I have loved serving as one of your pastors,
Durwood
Weekly Update // Pastor Will
Hi friends,
My heart is so full. Sunday was an incredible day, filled with so many meaningful moments that blew my family and me away. From the music to the sharing, the hugs, the cards, the gifts, the well-wishes, and everything in between — it was a day I’ll never forget, because Asbury is a church I’ll never forget. From the bottom of my heart, thank you. Thank you for loving me and my family so incredibly well.
I also wanted to share a quick note about the song we closed the service with. “You’ll Never Walk Alone” was originally written by Rodgers and Hammerstein for the Broadway musical Carousel in 1945. It was later made popular by Gerry and the Pacemakers in 1963. Around that time, the DJ at Liverpool Football Club — my favorite team (and yes, the team who won the league this year 🙂) — started playing the song before matches. Fans connected deeply with the lyrics, and it became their anthem. To this day, it’s sung at the beginning and end of every game, even in defeat.
While I love hearing it at football matches, what moves me most are the Christian themes woven into it — hope, perseverance, presence in suffering, and the strength of community. I think of how God walks with us through the wind and the rain, just as the song says. I’m also reminded of Hebrews 12 and the “great cloud of witnesses” who have gone before us. The song brings my father to mind especially — it’s a powerful reminder of him and of God’s faithful presence.
So yes, there are many layers to why that song is so special to me, and why I was so deeply moved when it was sung as a surprise at the end of the service. If you have a moment, search “Anfield You’ll Never Walk Alone” on YouTube — you’ll see thousands of fans singing it together, some through tears, and you’ll get a sense of just how much it means to so many people.
Alicia also wanted to share a quick word of thanks, included here: “Asbury has been more than a church to us, it has been family. Thank you for loving us so deeply and walking beside us through so many seasons of life. Your kindness, faithfulness, and joy have left a lasting mark on our hearts. We are heartbroken to be leaving, but forever grateful for the way you’ve made us feel at home.
With love and gratitude,
Alicia Kendust”
Thank you, Asbury, for everything. It’s not so much goodbye, it’s see ya’ll later.
Pastor Will
Weekly Update // Pastor Will
Dear Asbury Family,
It’s hard to believe, but as I sit down to write this, I find myself writing my final weekly email to you — and that’s not easy. This is truly a bittersweet moment. Serving as one of your pastors over the last four years has been one of the greatest joys and honors of my life. It has shaped me, stretched me, and filled me with gratitude beyond words. I will carry the memories, relationships, and lessons from Asbury with me for the rest of my life.
What I’ll remember most is the beautiful variety of ministry I’ve been blessed to be part of — from baptisms and welcoming new members to growing with the youth and watching different ministries flourish. It’s hard to name specific moments without feeling like I’d be leaving something out, because the truth is, this community has made the experience whole. Week after week, I’ve experienced a fullness in ministry that’s hard to put into words, but it has left a lasting mark on my heart.
As you receive this note, I’ll be on my way to Lakeland for the Florida Annual Conference — a gathering of United Methodist clergy and lay leaders where we worship, reflect, and make decisions together as we continue seeking God’s guidance for our churches. I’d be grateful for your prayers during this important time of discernment.
This Sunday, we will have one combined service at 10:30 AM in the Sanctuary, and I hope you’ll join us. It will be a time to worship together, give thanks to God, and celebrate all that we’ve shared in ministry. My family and I will be there, and we’d love the chance to see you, hug your necks, and share a moment of joy and gratitude. After worship, we’ll gather for a light reception — nothing fancy, just a time to connect, enjoy some refreshments, and say “see you later.”
As I step into this next chapter, my heart is full of hope for Asbury’s future. This church is filled with compassionate, faithful, and gifted people — and I truly believe the best days are still ahead. Thank you for the gift of letting me be your pastor.
With deep love and gratitude,
Will
Weekly Update // Pastor Durwood
The Life We Share
A few weeks ago, during a sermon, I shared many of the “vows” I had taken during my life.
Here are the moments I think of:
At my confirmation.
At my wedding to Anne.
At my Ordinations.
At the Baptisms of our 3 children.
At my installation as a District Superintendent.
We all make promises, but simply thinking through this list has reminded me of the particular importance that each one held for my life, my journey, my calling, and my desire to be about the work God led me towards.
I have also been mindful of a moment I have no memory of. I was just a few months old when my parents brought me to the front of the sanctuary and made a vow on my behalf. The preacher asked them; “Will you nurture Durwood in Christ’s Holy Church, that by your teaching and example he may be guided to accept God’s grace for himself, to profess his faith openly, and to lead a Christian life.” What were they thinking about when they said yes?
I can honestly say that not all the days of my life have fulfilled theses vows, but that the Prevenient, Justifying, Sanctifying, and Perfecting grace of God have seen me through all my days.
These moments have percolated in my life as our granddaughter, Lillie, has been attending Confirmation Class in her church. I, along with a dear friend, led her service of Baptism. It will be a moving moment to share in the service where she says YES to the Vows her parents responded to at her Baptism and as she takes her next step into the wonderful and mysterious journey of faith. Asbury has been a rich part of her journey these past few months. Thank you.
Do you think about your own journey of faith? Do you recall when faith first began to find footing in your life? For those who have affirmed their faith in Jesus, do you often think about the journey to this moment?
Maybe it’s just me and my life circumstance at the moment, but I do believe our faith grows when we remember the journey we have taken.
I love being one of your pastors. Pastor Will feels the same way. We will always count it a blessing and an honor to have served as your pastors. You have shaped us and empowered us to live out the call of our lives, as well as reminding us to remember our own Baptism as we each live out the journey of life and faith.
Durwood
Weekly Update // Pastor Will
Hi Asbury Family,
We’ve got a meaningful and exciting week ahead, and I want to share a few things with you!
I’m excited to announce our upcoming Youth Missions Week, happening June 2, 3, and 4! Each morning, our youth will serve in our local community and around the church — and then head out for fun and fellowship in the afternoons.
This is more than just a service project — it’s a chance for our youth to live out their faith, grow in friendship, and discover the joy of making a difference together. As Jesus reminds us in Mark 10:45, “For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many.” When we serve, we become more like Christ and draw closer to one another.
All the details for Youth Missions Week are included below in a separate section of this email. If you have any questions, feel free to reach out to me directly at PastorWill@AsburyMaitland.org — I’d love to help!
This Sunday, we’ll continue our sermon series, “The Life We Share,”with a message from Pastor Durwood titled “Checking Our Alignment.” It’s a great time to reflect on how we stay grounded in God and connected to one another.
We’d love for you to join us for worship — either at our 9:30 a.m. Celebration Service, 11:00 a.m. Traditional Service, or online via Facebook or YouTube. No matter how you join us, we’re grateful to share this life of faith together.
And as always, it’s truly a joy to be one of your pastors here at Asbury.
Lastly, please note that our church offices will be closed on Monday, May 27 in observance of Memorial Day. We pause to honor the men and women who served and gave their lives for our freedom. We give thanks for their sacrifice and lift their families in prayer.
With gratitude and hope,
Will
Weekly Update // Pastor Durwood
Dear Asbury Family and Friends,
This past Friday Anne and I and watched, online, the graduation of a dear family friend who received his Masters of Science in Nursing with a speciality in Family Nurse Practitioner. It was a moving moment in his life, as well as his family.
This morning we held graduation for our VPK class at the pre-school. Parents, grandparents, and other family joined for a wonderful celebration of accomplishment and next steps.
At many high school, college, and university graduations, commencement speeches often seize on the significance of the moment and challenge the listeners to rise to the occasion. They call graduates to see themselves as part of a global community, wherein they are part of the solution for the world’s ills. The speakers widen the graduates’ gaze beyond their own social circle, and tell them, in offering their unique gifts and abilities; they can be part of something greater than themselves.
Many years ago I read a collection of some speakers words. I share just a few with you.
This is the straight truth. The righteous truth. It's not a theory; it's a fact. The fact is that this generation -- yours, my generation -- we're the first generation that can look at poverty and disease, look across the ocean to Africa and say with a straight face, we can be the first to end this stupid extreme poverty, where, in a world of plenty, a child can die for lack of food in it's belly. (Bono, University of Pennsylvania, May 17, 2004)
My good friends, we are all waiting. We are waiting, if not for the Messiah, as such, we are waiting for the messianic moment. And the messianic moment is what each and every one of us tries to build, meaning a certain area of humanity that links us to all those who are human and, therefore, desperately trying to fight despair as humanly as possible and--I hope--with some measure of success. (Elie Wiesel, DePaul University, June 15, 1997)
Whether our world is to be saved from everything that threatens it today depends above all on whether human beings come to their senses, whether they understand the degree of their responsibility and discover a new relationship to the very miracle of being. The world is in the hands of us all. (Vaclav Havel, Harvard University, May, 1995)
And then, there is this speech, offered 2,000 years ago, during a commencement ceremony on a mountaintop. Assembled were students of Jesus’ traveling seminary, who had spent more than three years learning, practicing, attempting, failing, and trying again. For this simple band of common people, the world had changed. They were no longer fishermen and tax collectors. They were world-changers-in-the-making. And their time had come. When Jesus stood before them, before he took off into the clouds, he gave his address:
This is what you have heard from me; for John baptized with water, but you will be baptized with the Holy Spirit not many days from now. It is not for you to know the times or periods that the Father has set by his own authority. But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.
Like all great commencement speeches, Jesus seized the moment. He told the disciples that there were challenges ahead, and that they were to carry the gospel of God’s love to the furthest reaches of the earth, beyond their small social circles. But along the way, they would not be alone, for the Spirit would come upon them. They would receive the Spirit’s power and comfort to achieve great things for the Kingdom, and participate in God’s ongoing project: the healing of the world and redemption of all creation.
Let’s celebrate the graduates as we move through The Life we Share!
Durwood
Weekly Update // Pastor Will
Hi Asbury Family,
This past Sunday, we launched our new sermon series, The Life We Share—and what a meaningful way to begin this next chapter together. As we walk through this season of transition, preparing to welcome Pastor Emily and Pastor Jon into the life of Asbury, it’s more important than ever to reflect on the deep, shared life we have in Christ.
Pastor Durwood also reminded us about our Can Do campaign, based on Philippians 4:16. This effort is all about closing the deficit we carried into the year and creating a strong foundation for Jon and Emily as they step into leadership. Your faithfulness and generosity are a blessing to this church and its future.
This weekend is also extra special as we celebrate Mother’s Day and honor all the moms and mom-like figures in our lives. It all starts Friday evening with the Women in Faith “Night in Paris” Banquet—a beautiful evening of fellowship, fun, and celebration that sets the tone for a weekend full of gratitude and love.
On a personal note, I can’t say enough about the women in our front office. They have truly been a gift to me and my family. They keep me organized, keep me straight, and even help watch my kids when needed—always with grace, patience, and a deep sense of care. They’ve loved us like family, and I am so, so grateful.
On the horizon is our Family Carnival on May 16! We’re still looking for a few extra hands to help make it a great evening. If you’re available to pitch in, please reach out to our Children’s Director, Laura Malloy, at childrensministry@asburymaitland.org.
Join us this Sunday as we continue in worship at 9:30 for our Celebration Service and 11:00 for our Traditional Service. Let’s come together, give thanks, and celebrate the life we share—with one another and in Christ.
With gratitude,
Will
Weekly Update // Pastor Will
Hi friends,
I wanted to share the statement I read on Sunday regarding my new appointment to Tuskawilla beginning in July. As I shared below, it has been an incredible blessing to serve as your pastor, and I will carry Asbury with me wherever I go.
Thank you again for the privilege of being your pastor. While I’ll only be here for another month, let’s make it a meaningful and memorable one together!
Good morning, church family.
I want to take just a moment this morning to follow up and share a few words from my heart. As was just shared, I’ll be stepping into a new appointment at Tuskawilla United Methodist Church beginning July 1. My last Sunday here at Asbury will be June 8.
Even though I feel a deep peace that this is where God is leading me, it doesn’t make it any easier to say goodbye. Asbury has been so much more than just a church to me and my family — you have truly been our home. Over the past four years, you’ve loved us, supported us, and walked with us through life’s joys and challenges. We are forever grateful.
When I was younger, growing up at Suntree United Methodist Church, I always felt like church was a second home — a place where I could make mistakes (even some silly ones!), find my footing, and grow up in a community that accepted me just as I was. For many years, I dreamed of helping create that kind of space for others. What I didn’t realize is that God was also creating that kind of space for me — right here at Asbury.
Serving as your pastor has been one of the greatest honors of my life. I have absolutely loved being here, and that’s what makes this transition so incredibly hard.
While change is never easy, I trust that God’s hand is in it — both for me and for Asbury. Thank you for being such a beautiful part of our story. No matter where God leads, a part of my heart will always remain here with you.
Thank you for letting me be your pastor. It has truly been an honor.
Pastor Will
Weekly Update // Pastor Durwood
Many years ago I had shoulder surgery that required many weeks of physical therapy. A few times a week I showed up at an office and worked on my shoulder with two wonderful physical therapists, Melissa and Kayla. It was always a pretty painful experience going through the various exercises. One of the therapists would invariably ask me if it hurt. I would always say yes! She would nod and direct me to the next exercise--the pendulum! Oh my. After making my way around the machines and the stretching, I would be attached to a stimulator machine for a little relief. It always felt so good – so refreshing – so soothing!!!
That has me thinking about the journey we are all on in this life. There are bumps in the road, injuries from time to time, and moments when we wonder what can possibly happen next. What spiritual exercises do we have in place to endure the tough moments, or even the peaceful ones? What “stimulates” our pursuit of growing closer to Christ? Finding our rest and Hope in Christ’s love?
The journey of Lent has invited us to exercise the things God has given for us to use to overcome injury, pursue wholeness and find peace in life. Holy Scripture, prayer, communion and worship are among those most ready to aid us. Conversations with others on the journey offer us glimpses of hope in our hurting moments. All to point us toward the eternal Hope that is ours in Christ.
So, how are the exercises going for you today? Do you feel the pull of a muscle, the twinge of new healing, and the sharp pain of realizing the hurt? Do as Kayla and Melissa commanded—next exercise!
This Sunday we gather for Palm/Passion Worship at 9:30 and 10:50am. Each service is designed to takes us on a powerful journey as we begin the holiest of weeks in the Christian faith. Please make these services a priority and note that our regular 11am service will begin earlier than usual.
Stay on the journey!
I love serving as one of your pastors,
Durwood
Weekly Update // Pastor Durwood
I’m certain that most, if not all of us, have encountered a moment that made a positive life change in our lives. Maybe it was an unexpected mentor who encouraged us. Perhaps it was a stranger who somehow spoke to our life situation in such a way that we saw life in a different manner.
It happened in the first century as Jesus went from town to town sharing a message of hope, peace and joy that the people had never before experienced. It also happened when Jesus walked the shore and found a few men tending nets. He simply said, “FOLLOW ME.” Shockingly they did and the rest is history. It happened when Jesus came to the tax collector Matthew and asked him along for the journey. The “bug” caught, first a few and then the multitudes, and the name of Jesus became a household word in that region.
The contagious nature of God’s love in Jesus has been passed from generation to generation. What began with 12 disciples and a few friends has exploded into the Christian Church today! God’s love exhibits a contagious nature. I can almost imagine what it must have been like to have Jesus come close as he did to the woman at the well. Jesus KNEW her. He knew her sin and reputation and yet he calls her to sin no more. While others treated her like dirt, Jesus wrapped the love of God around her and she was TRANSFORMED! She is so overwhelmed by Jesus’ love that she immediately shares it with her town. That’s
CONTAGIOUS love. THAT’S LOVE WORTH SPREADING!
I don’t know about you but that’s how God’s love found me. Just a kid, couldn’t do much right, could find trouble no matter where it was hiding. Yet one day I heard about Jesus’ love and knew that was the kind of life I wanted to live. That CONTAGIOUS LOVE “bug” had me. Not perfect mind you, just forgiven.
I wonder, have you caught it? Do you know the awesome love of God that is yours in Jesus Christ? It’s contagious! It’s spreading! One by one people are coming to know Jesus as their Savior. If you’ve caught it, have you shared it? It’s not a bug to own, rather it is something wonderful, powerful and transforming that is meant to share. Catch it today, then pass it around to your family and friends. You’ll be glad you did!
As our Lenten Journey continues, may we all seek to know, embrace, and share the love of Christ with the world at our doorsteps and beyond.
Durwood
Weekly Update // Pastor Will
Hi friends,
As we continue in this season of Lent, I was encouraged by Durwood’s email last week about the Five Finger Prayer. It’s such a simple yet powerful way to engage in prayer, especially when we’re not sure what to say.
This past Tuesday, I traveled to Lakeland for a day of learning, connection, and worship with clergy from the Florida Conference. One of the key conversations at my table was about how we can help our congregations grow deeper in their understanding of God and His love. One pastor emphasized the importance of equipping people with practical tools—like the Five Finger Prayer—to strengthen their prayer lives. This is especially meaningful in Lent, a season of renewal and deepened commitment to Christ.
One thing I’ve realized is how easy it is to say, “I’ll pray more,” and then forget. I’ve found it helpful to set a specific time. My favorite verse is John 10:10, where Jesus says:
"The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly." (NRSV)
So, I’m setting a reminder to pray at 10:10 AM each day. I encourage you to do the same—whether using your favorite verse reference or something similar to help keep you on track!
This Sunday in worship, we continue our Lenten series, The Cost of Love, as Pastor Durwood preaches from Mark 14 with the message “Jesus Thought of Us.” We’ll also hear briefly from Kevin Chaplin about his reconciliation work in South Africa, with a more in-depth presentation at the potluck following the services at 12(ish) PM in the Fellowship Hall.
We will have both worship services as usual:
Celebration/Contemporary at 9:30 AM in the Fellowship Hall
Traditional at 11:00 AM in the Sanctuary
Both will be live-streamed on YouTube and Facebook if you can’t join us in person.
I’m so blessed to be one of your pastors as we journey through this Lenten season together. Thanks be to God!
Pastor Will
Weekly Update // Pastor Durwood
Dear Asbury Family and Friends,
As we continue our Lenten journey this week, I am mindful of a question posed to me often. “How can I develop a more consistent and meaningful prayer life?”
Years ago, someone shared the idea of the Five Finger Prayer. It, I shared, is a great way to start praying with more consistency. I share it with you all this week as a way of deepening our Lenten days. Perhaps it will stir your desire to connect in prayer with the Creator of the Universe. After all, God is waiting to hear from you!
I trust your week is providing opportunities to Help others in need, Share the Love of Jesus, Grow in your faith, and Serve the needs of Christ! Have a terrific, spirit filled week!
I love serving as one of your pastors,
Durwood
The Five Finger Prayer
1. Your thumb is nearest to you. So, begin your prayers by praying for those closet to you. They are the easiest to remember. To pray for our loved ones is as C.S. Lewis once said a "sweet duty".
2. The next finger is the pointer finger. Pray for those who teach, instruct, and heal. This includes teachers, doctors, and ministers. They need support and wisdom in pointing others in the right direction. Keep them in your prayers.
3. The next finger is the tallest finger. It reminds us of our leaders. Pray for the president, leaders in business and industry, and administrators. These people shape our nation and guide public opinion. They need God's guidance.
4. The fourth finger is our ring finger. Surprising to many is the fact that this is our weakest finger, as any piano teacher will testify. It should remind us to pray for those who are weak, in trouble or in pain. They need your prayers day and night. You cannot pray too much for them.
5. And lastly comes our little finger; the smallest finger of all. Which is where we should place ourselves in relation to God and others. As the Bible says, "the least shall be the greatest among you". Your pinky should remind you to pray for yourself. By the time you have prayed for the other four groups, your own needs will be put into proper perspective, and you will be able to pray for yourself more effectively.
Weekly Update // Pastor Durwood
This past Christmas our family traveled to London. A friend of our daughter set up an entire day for us to tour Oxford, a place central to the work of John Wesley. While on our tour we happened upon the prison (pictured above) that was constructed by the King to house debtors in Wesley’s day.
Each morning the Society (Wesley and Friends) would gather very early in the morning for study and accountability. After their time together they would go to the prison and visit the prisoners, share the gospel, share friendship, compassion, and empathy. Wesley believed the Gospel belonged to everyone, not just those who could afford to pay and hear it read and taught. These early Society groups became what we know today as the United Methodist Church.
As we continue our journey through THE COST OF LOVE, I invite you to consider the 22 questions those early followers of John Wesley discussed in their daily lives together before they went out to minister to those in need. They challenge and inspire us to be the absolute best that we can be for the Kingdom of God and press us beyond apprenticeship and into discipleship as the Children of God.
May we all truly discover something new in our walk and strive toward the goal of serving with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength. Explore the questions and share the Love of Christ with someone new this week.
See you Sunday in the place where all are welcome, and all receive the assurance of God’s love! This week’s sermon text is Matthew 7:24-29
Durwood
1. Am I consciously or unconsciously creating the impression that I'm better ......than I really am? In other words, am I a hypocrite?
2. Am I honest in all my acts and words, or do I exaggerate?
3. Do I confidentially pass on what was told to me in confidence?
4. Can I be trusted?
5. Am I a slave to dress, friends, work or habits?
6. Am I self-conscious, self-pitying or self-justifying?
7. Did the Bible live in me today?
8. Do I give it time to speak to me every day?
9. Am I enjoying prayer?
10. When did I last speak to someone else about my faith?
11. Do I pray about the money I spend?
12. Do I get to bed on time and get up on time?
13. Do I disobey God in anything?
14. Do I insist upon doing something about which my conscience is uneasy?
15. Am I defeated in any part of my life?
16. Am I jealous, impure, critical, irritable, touchy or distrustful?
17. How do I spend my spare time?
18. Am I proud?
19. Do I thank God that I am not as other people, especially as the Pharisees ......who despised the publican?
20. Is there anyone whom I fear, dislike, disown, criticize, hold a resentment toward or disregard? If so, what am I doing about it?
21. Do I grumble or complain constantly?
22. Is Christ real to me?
In hope and confidence,
Durwood
Weekly Update // Pastor Durwood
Dear Asbury Family,
Lent is just around the corner. It is a most sacred time of the Christian Year! The Rev. Magrey deVega, pastor of Hyde Park UMC in Tampa, wrote the following note to his congregation a few years back. I am sharing it with you as it frames our journey of lent so well, beginning with Ash Wednesday, March 5.
Just two months ago today, we were basking in Bethlehem starlight, celebrating his birth. And now, just two months later, thirty years in gospel time, we are preparing for the journey to Jerusalem.
Ready or not, it’s time for Lent.
It is worth noting some significant differences between Christmas Day and Ash Wednesday. Christmas is predictable: without fail, it is always on December 25. We order our lives and our calendars around it. It never backs into November, never slides into January. School semesters always break for it, retailers bet on it, and families plan travel around it. There is something constant, and comforting, about this holiday fixture.
But Easter moves around. Independent of our secular schedules, it is – are you ready for this – on the first Sunday after the first full moon that occurs on or following the spring equinox on the 21st of March. This means that Ash Wednesday can occur as early as the first week in February or as late as the second week in March. That’s a variation of nearly 35 days!
What this means is that Lent often sneaks up on us. It catches us off guard. It can disrupt our planning. Sometimes the schools have spring break during Holy Week, and sometimes they don’t. Sometimes the stores have lots of time between their Valentine’s chocolates and their Cadbury Easter eggs, and sometimes they don’t. Whereas Christmas is comforting in its constancy, Lent can be devious in its elusiveness.
And when you think about it, maybe that is an accurate reflection of how we live our lives:
We can know with precision the exact date, and even the time of our own births. But we cannot know with the same certainty the moment of our deaths.
We can know with certainty God’s constant love and faithfulness. But we can be quite blind to the sin that germinates and blooms within the subsoil of our existence.
We can know with absolute conviction what God has done for us through Christ. But we can be quite ambivalent in committing ourselves to that same Christ.
We are quick to bask in the life, light, and joy of knowing Jesus. But we are caught off guard when that relationship calls us to humility, sobriety, and self-sacrifice.
For the secularized Christian, what Wesley would call an “Almost Christian,” celebration is a given, but discipline is elusive. A life of mere good deeds and a life of sincere, committed faith can be eons apart.
Regardless of how subtly this Lenten season has snuck up on you, we are all here together, to begin a 40-day journey marked by an invitation to look deeply within our lives and find what resides within the shadowy parts of our souls. Ready or not, we enter into a time of acknowledgement, confession, surrender, and ultimately, transformation.
Asbury offers many opportunities for deep exploration during Lent.
A daily devotional booklet is available to pick up at out worship services and in the church office. You can also access it at asburylent.com.
Lenten Lunches at noon each Wednesday, noon to 1pm, March 5 through April 16.
March 5th Congregational Ash Wednesday Worship service in the sanctuary at 7pm with special music by our choir and a special message from Pastor Durwood.
The Disposition of Ashes on March 5th at the Lenten Lunch and evening service.
Weekly Worship on Sunday at 9:30am and 11am
Daily prayer time on FaceBook live Monday through Friday at 8:30am.
I invite you to join the friends and family of Asbury on our journey through Lent. All of our worship services and the Lenten Lunches are available to stream on YouTube and FaceBook. Come along for the journey, and invite a family member or friend to come along. This will be a powerful, deeply meaningful time together.
Ready or not, let’s observe a holy Lent.
I love being one of your pastors,
Durwood
Don’t Forget :
Come to our campus and have a fun time Friday, February 28 for the Asbury Early Learning Center Art Show and Silent Auction from 5-7:30pm
Methodist Men’s Breakfast, Saturday March 1 at 7:30am. Pastor Durwood is the speaker. Come ask him anything you want!
Weekly Update // Pastor Will
Dear Asbury Family,
Did you know that we have Morning Prayer every weekday at 8:30 a.m. on Facebook Live? It’s a great opportunity to start your day with God and our Asbury community.
What is Morning Prayer?
Morning Prayer is a time set aside to center ourselves before the day begins. Each morning, we come together virtually for about 30 minutes of prayer and reflection, and you’re invited to join us! While the general structure remains the same, each presenter brings their own style, format, and "flavor" to the time. Here’s what you can typically expect:
A Psalm: A passage from the Psalms to begin the day with praise and thanksgiving.
A New Testament Reading: A short scripture to encourage and challenge you as you walk through the week.
A Song for Reflection: A piece of music (usually from our Asbury YouTube page) to meditate on and help focus your heart on God’s presence.
Closing Prayer and Benediction: We end with a time of prayer and a benediction to send you into your day with God’s peace and purpose.
The format I’ve outlined is usually what I use, but each presenter may choose to structure the time a little differently. Here's who will be leading each week:
Monday & Tuesday – Teresa Cunningham
Wednesday – Will Kendust (that’s me!)
Thursday – Cyd Frank
Friday – Pastor Durwood
We invite you to set aside 30 minutes each morning to pause, pray, and connect with God and our church family. You can join us live or watch the replay at your convenience on our Facebook page: www.facebook.com/asburyumcmaitland.
Upcoming Events at Asbury
Asbury Early Learning Center Silent Auction & Fundraiser – Join us on February 28th from 5:00 to 7:30 p.m. for this special event to support our Early Learning Center.
United Methodist Men’s Breakfast – On March 1st at 7:30 a.m. in the Fellowship Hall, join us for a hearty breakfast and fellowship as Pastor Durwood shares a message.
Lenten Gatherings & Ash Wednesday – As we prepare for Lent, join us for our Lenten Gatherings in the Fellowship Hall at 12:00 Noon, where food will be provided as we reflect and prepare our hearts. That evening, we will hold a special Ash Wednesday service at 7:00 p.m. in the Sanctuary. Ashes will be imposed at both gatherings.
This Sunday’s Sermon: Divine Flavor
Pastor Durwood will bring a message on what it means to be the salt of the earth and how we bring God’s presence into the world. We hope to see you in worship! If you can’t make it in person, we of course have our live-stream options available on Youtube and Facebook.
Blessings,
Will
Weekly Update // Pastor Will
Dear Asbury Family,
I get asked now and then how I decide what to preach on. A lot of the time, when I preach, it’s because the topic is one I personally need to hear. A few weeks ago, I chose to focus on God’s patience with others, but more often than not, with us. I realized how often we fall into the trap of legalism—feeling like we need to earn God’s favor. I’m incredibly susceptible to this myself.
We live in a world that constantly tells us to achieve, perform, and prove our worth. We often see others’ highlight reels only on social media and end up thinking we must be doing something wrong. This mindset often creeps into our relationship with God, and we begin to think we have to check all the right boxes, follow all the rules, and do everything perfectly in order to receive His love. But the truth is: God is patient with us, waiting for us to receive His grace. It’s not demanding or forceful, but gentle and patient.
2 Peter 3:9 reminds us that God is not slow, as we might think of it, but patient—giving us time to turn to Him. If you’ve ever struggled with doubt or felt like you weren’t “doing enough” in your faith, take heart. God’s love is not about performance—it’s about His steadfast, patient grace.
This kind of patience is radically different from what the world teaches us. We are encouraged to hurry, achieve, and constantly strive, but God calls us to rest in His grace.
A challenge for this week: I invite you to lean into His patience and trust that He is at work in your life, even when you don’t feel like you’ve done enough.
Upcoming Events
Hot Dogs at the Lakeside Chapel – Wednesday at Noon
Join us for food and fellowship in a beautiful setting!Asbury Early Learning Center Art Show & Silent Auction – Friday, Feb. 28 (5-7 PM)
Come support our little artists and help raise funds for the Early Learning Center.United Methodist Men’s Breakfast – Saturday, March 1 (7:30 AM, Fellowship Hall)
Pastor Durwood will be the guest speaker—come enjoy a great meal and an inspiring message!
Join Us for Worship
This Sunday, Pastor Durwood will be preaching on Luke 21 with a sermon titled "Giving That Matters." We encourage you to join us in person if possible, but if you can’t make it, online options are available as well.
Praying you have a blessed and wonderful weekend. See you soon!
Grace and peace,
Will
Weekly Update // Pastor Will
Dear Asbury Family
I hope you’re all having a wonderful week! I wanted to take a moment to share something personal with you and ask for your prayers. This Thursday morning at 9 AM, I will be meeting with the Florida Board of Ordained Ministry (BOOM) to discuss my continuation in the ordination process of the United Methodist Church. While this journey has required a lot of time and effort, I am grateful for the ways it continues to shape me, challenge me, and affirm my calling. There are certainly moments when I wish I could be focusing on other things, but I also know that this process is invaluable—giving me guidance and direction as I seek to serve faithfully. I would greatly appreciate your prayers for wisdom, clarity, and peace as I go through this next step. Your encouragement and support mean more to me than I can express, and I’ll be sure to share an update when I have one.
In the midst of all this, I’m also excited about several upcoming events that I hope you’ll take part in!
• Glow Party – This Friday, February 7, from 6:00-7:30 PM
If you’re looking for a fun, family-friendly event, this is it! Our Glow Party will be an evening full of music, dancing, crafts, games, and more—all in a glow-in-the-dark setting. Whether you’re young or just young at heart, it’s going to be a fantastic time, and I’d love to see you there!
• Asbury Early Learning Center Silent Auction & Art Show – Friday, February 28
Our preschool does an incredible job of nurturing and educating our little ones, and this event is a great way to support them! The silent auction and art show will help raise extra funds so they can continue to provide an amazing learning experience. Whether you have children in the program or just want to help out a great cause, I encourage you to come be a part of it!
I also hope to see you this Sunday for worship as we continue our sermon series, The Heart of God. Pastor Durwood will be bringing the message, and I know it will be a meaningful time of reflection and encouragement. If you’re unable to attend in person, don’t forget that we stream our services on Facebook and YouTube, so you can still worship with us from wherever you are.
And for our youth (6th-12th grade), this Sunday at 11:00 AM is our Second Sunday gathering! We’ll be making pancakes and waffles, enjoying some great fellowship, and just taking time to connect. It’s always a fun and relaxed time together, and I’d love for you to join us!
Thank you, Asbury, for walking alongside me in this season of life and ministry. Your prayers and support give me strength, and I’m grateful for each of you. I look forward to seeing you soon!
Grace and peace,
Will
Weekly Update // Pastor Durwood
Friends,
Thank you so very much for the warm and gracious welcome you have extended to both Anne and myself. We are glad to share this connection with you for the next few months and look forward to getting to know you more and more.
We have already experienced the deep generosity of both the church staff, members, leaders, and friends of Asbury. Asbury has already found its way into our hearts.
We have important work ahead of us as we prepare for the appointment of your next senior pastor. During February the Cabinet of the Florida Conference, led by Bishop Berlin, will meet to do the work of appointments. I want to assure you that the process is bathed in bible study, prayer, and trust that the Holy Spirit is present in conversation and decision. I invite each of us to be in prayer for the person God is preparing right now to serve Asbury as Senior Pastor beginning July 1. During March the cabinet will again meet to further refine its work and project appointments throughout the conference. Announcement Sunday will be April 27th. In this in between time we will walk the journey together, fulfilling the call of Jesus to make disciples for the transformation of the world.
I look forward to our continued time together with anticipation and assurance that God is with us in all moments of life and that the Holy Spirit will guide our work together.
Looking ahead, we have some exciting opportunities to connect and grow together:
• United Methodist Men’s Breakfast – Next Saturday, February 1, at 7:30 AM - Join us in the Fellowship Hall for a hearty breakfast and a powerful message from Pastor Erwin Lopez. Pastor Erwin is the director of the Central Florida Wesley Foundation, a ministry we have been blessed by, and we’re thrilled to have him share with us. Don’t miss it!
• Charge Conference – Tuesday, February 4, at 7:00 PM - We’ll be hosting a charge conference in the Welcome Friends Room at Laity Council. There are a couple of important items we need to vote on as members, so we encourage everyone to attend if you can!
• Glow Party – Friday, February 7, from 6:00–7:30 PM - The Glow Party is a free event put on by our Children’s Director, Laura Malloy, and her team that takes over a lot of the church campus with games, dancing, snacks, prizes, and more. While it’s geared toward 6th grade and under, I assure you everyone has a great time. We’re kicking things off a little later this year so the glow can truly shine! This is a fun-filled event you won’t want to miss, so mark your calendars and bring the whole family.
It is a true joy to serve among you and I hope to see you Sunday morning in worship. Pastor Will will continue our journey into The Heart of God. His text is 2 Peter 3:9. We will explore the patience of God. Join us for our 9:30 Celebration/Contemporary Service or our 11:00 Traditional Service.
If you can’t join us in person, both services will be live streamed on YouTube and FaceBook.
P.S. Pastor Durwood would love it if someone could explain to him what the mural on the wall in the front lobby depicts.
In hope and assurance,
Durwood O. Foshee III
Weekly Update // Pastor Will
Hi Church Family,
I want to take a moment not only to thank everyone but also to share about the calendar meeting this past Tuesday. This gathering gave us the opportunity to plan the next six months, ensuring our ministries don’t overlap and finding ways to support one another in our work.
It was incredible to see about 20 people gathered in one room, prepared in advance yet ready to remain flexible to ensure every event runs smoothly, not just for their own ministry but for others as well. The meeting was filled with collaboration as ideas were shared and offers of help were exchanged.
It is truly inspiring to witness the synergy and God’s Spirit at work as we embrace all the wonderful things happening at Asbury. Someone even mentioned that this was one of the healthiest meetings they had ever experienced, and while we are not perfect, it is a testament to the spirit of unity in our church.
While the meeting can feel a bit daunting as we stretch ourselves to think ahead, it really sets us up well to execute our plans proficiently and to make adjustments or additions if needed. Thank you all for being part of this important work!
Looking ahead, we have some exciting opportunities to connect and grow together:
United Methodist Men’s Breakfast – Next Saturday, February 1, at 7:30 AM - Join us in the Fellowship Hall for a hearty breakfast and a powerful message from Pastor Erwin Lopez. Pastor Erwin is the director of the Central Florida Wesley Foundation, a ministry we have been blessed by, and we’re thrilled to have him share with us. Don’t miss it!
Charge Conference – Tuesday, February 4, at 7:00 PM - We’ll be hosting a charge conference in the Welcome Friends Room at Laity Council. There are a couple of important items we need to vote on as members, so we encourage everyone to attend if you can!
Glow Party – Friday, February 7, from 6:00–7:30 PM - The Glow Party is a free event put on by our Children’s Director, Laura Malloy, and her team that takes over a lot of the church campus with games, dancing, snacks, prizes, and more. While it’s geared toward 6th grade and under, I assure you everyone has a great time. We’re kicking things off a little later this year so the glow can truly shine! This is a fun-filled event you won’t want to miss, so mark your calendars and bring the whole family.
Finally, I hope to see you at church this Sunday, January 26, as Pastor Durwood continues his sermon series, The Heart of God. This week’s message, A Lot With a Little, will focus on the lesson of the mustard seed that Jesus speaks on in Luke 13. We’ll gather for our 9:30 Celebration/Contemporary Service or our 11:00 Traditional Service.
If you can’t join us in person, both services will be livestreamed on YouTube
and Facebook.
There’s so much to look forward to as we walk through this season together. Let’s continue to support one another and celebrate all the ways God is moving in and through ourcommunity.
Blessings,
Will